There are some of us that look to establish a relationship while dating and there are some that are simply looking for a “hook up” in other words a carefree relationship with a focus on just the physical. If you are focusing on finding love and not a simple “hook up” then maybe these 4 tips will help you identify when someone is purely about the hook up.
- Doesn’t want to get to know you/ and not tell you much about them. If the person you are dating doesn’t ask questions to learn more about you and doesn’t tell you much about their personal life it could be they are not interested in a relationship.
- Way too touchy too soon. Affection is great, however if the person is more hands on and touchy way too soon their mind could be after one thing.
- Only invites you over or asks to come over. If all dates end up at one or the other’s place it could be “hook up” only zone.
- They always make late last minute plans. Ok this one is tricky. We get it as a busy professional you are often busy and when you have a free time you may ask one out at the last minute. This is totally cool. However if all dates are last minute, you may not be top of the mind and just a “hook up.”
Dating does require time and heart felt energy. Not everyone you meet will be looking for a hook up. If you feel yourself in a situation with someone with different expectations than you it is never too soon to separate and begin a new dating experience. If you need help it may be time to create a profile on www.medprosmeet.com and get connected with a single medical professional.